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However, if someone is not interested, you should have noticed an extreme change in their behaviour.Maybe initially they were approachable and keen, then after a while seem distant and unavailable.Someone who is uninterested will just leave you hanging.They won’t call you or even return your calls, and to be honest, you should really have spotted that something is wrong at this stage. How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? The Value of Understanding Men’s Deadly Dating Patterns"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly." ~Sam Keen In the just released paperback version of Love in 90 Days, I devote a whole new chapter to the 16 most common Men’s Deadly Dating Patterns based on personality types.
Following “The Rules” that state that you cannot seem too interested in a guy is probably the wrong way to go about getting your man. Do we really think that “treat ’em mean to keep ’em keen” is really all it’s cracked up to be?You might have told all your friends that you are done with playing games, and you just want to be honest with the next person you date. It’s all well and good being straight and upfront with your next date, but if you are looking for something serious then honesty might not be the best policy.A study in The European Journal of Personality presents data collected from a group of young men and women attending four different universities.If you’ve tried to arrange a date, but it has been cancelled, the person playing hard to get will have a genuine reason for not showing up.They will also probably have another time and date in mind so you two can get together.
The results show that those seeking a long term relationship had a better success rate when playing hard to get. Our subconscious is probably telling us that if your prospective partner is willing to put in the hard work, then they are probably in for the long haul.